Answer by Helena for How to provide feedback about subtle gender policing
You don't have any evidence that this is a gender issue, so I would not make it one.Instead I would focus on the facts:Your colleague is making comments that are making you uncomfortable and disrupt...
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What you could have done:I really don't like the public confrontation suggested elsewhere here. If you prefer it, then you can follow that advice. In my view, this is a clear case of subtle bullying...
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These comments serve a purpose. They are made to create a power structure: the person making them is the judge, you're the judged. Telling someone repeatedly and in public that they look tired/...
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Background: I'm a senior engineer on team A who, back in February, jumped onto team B to take over a project I had zero familiarity with due to the existing lead engineer's departure. The project...
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